Sexual Massage Services in Tokyo for Foreign Women

Do you know the Japanese term ‘女性用風俗 (Joseiyou Fuzoku)’? It’s something that has been gaining popularity in Japan over the past few years, so I think it might not be very well-known to people outside of Japan.

It’s challenging to translate it accurately into English, but if I had to try, it would be ‘Sexual Entertainment for Women.’ This term refers to services that women use for relaxation, entertainment, and sexual satisfaction.

So, what exactly do these services entail? Well, they include anything a woman desires, from non-sexual activities like dates and dining to sexual activities such as kissing and petting.

While it’s not uncommon worldwide for women to provide sexual services to men for money, Japan offers a reverse version of this service. And yes, it’s completely legal. Female clients pay handsome Japanese men to spend enjoyable time together, which may include satisfying sexual desires, at a hotel or in their homes. Since the media reported on the existence of these services, the market has been growing every year in Japan, and they have now become quite popular.

Many of the desires women seek to fulfill are sexual, with a primary focus on sexual massage.

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Why is experiencing this service in Tokyo the best option?

There might be other countries where women can receive sexual services, but no country has an industry as developed and provides such high-quality services as Japan. Generally, therapists affiliated with a shop go through extensive training before they start offering services to female clients. Similarly, independent therapists who need to find their own clients also study and refine their techniques through personal experience.

In Tokyo alone, the competition is so fierce, with over a hundred service providers, both shops and individuals combined, that the quality of service naturally improves. This includes aspects like sexual massage techniques, hospitality towards clients, and the appearance of the therapists.

That’s why I, the author, who has been offering sexual massage services to women in Tokyo for about ten years, have compiled this information for foreign women who may be interested in such services. I hope that by explaining what this service is all about, I can be of some help to you.

Introduction to Sexual Massage Services for Women in Tokyo

Definition of Sexual Massage

Sexual massage refers to a type of massage that enhances sexual pleasure by touching the entire body and erogenous zones in a special way. Rather than using strong pressure, sexual pleasure is increased through gentle touches. Sexual massage generally begins with light, feather-like touches to relax the recipient’s mind and body. As sensitivity increases and a trance-like state is reached, even light touches anywhere on the body can bring pleasure, eventually leading to orgasm.

Examples of Services Provided

The following services can be customized according to individual needs:

• Sexual massage
• Aroma massage
• Cunnilingus
• Fingering
• Hugs
• Kissing
• Spooning
• BDSM
• Yoni (vagina) massage
• Having your body licked
• Having your body washed

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Service Fees

The cost varies depending on the service provider, but the typical rate is around 15,000 to 20,000 yen for two hours. Additionally, you will need to pay for the therapist’s transportation and hotel fees. Some shops also adjust their prices based on the therapist’s popularity.

Advice for First-Timers

Tips for Choosing a Service

Do Your Research

When selecting a service, it’s important to conduct thorough research beforehand. Check if they meet your essential conditions, such as “Is it okay if I only speak English?”, “Is the fee within my budget?”, or “Is this man experienced?”. Since English-language websites are rare, it is advisable to look for Japanese websites and use translation tools to conduct your research, even if you don’t understand Japanese.
It is also important to know what kind of male therapist you’ll be meeting. Check reliable websites or social media platforms and consider reviews and ratings from other users.

Make Inquiries

If you have any questions or concerns, don’t hesitate to contact the service provider directly. Since each provider may offer different services, asking questions via email can help you determine if the service is right for you. Compatibility is also an important factor. Some men are kind and polite, while others may not be, so initial communication can help you get a sense of whether their personality aligns with yours.

Check Photos of Male Therapists

People have different preferences when it comes to physical appearance. If you find the therapist’s appearance off-putting, it might be challenging to feel good, no matter how skilled they are at sexual massage. Therefore, always choose men who post their photos.

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Etiquette and Manners for Sexual Massage Services

Punctuality

In Japan, punctuality is very important. Arriving on time for your appointment shows respect to the therapist. If there is a booking after your session, being late might reduce the time you get to spend together at the hotel. However, unforeseen circumstances do happen, so if you think you might be late, contact the therapist as early as possible. A delay of about 15 minutes is usually acceptable.

Shower Before the Service

Depending on the service, the male therapist may lick every part of the woman’s body. Before getting into bed at the hotel, make sure to take a shower to keep your body clean. You don’t need to wash your hair if it’s too much trouble to dry. It’s also recommended to soak in the bath if you have time, as warming up your body improves blood circulation and can enhance sexual pleasure.

Prohibition Against Forcing Sex

As the session progresses and sexual arousal peaks, some women may feel the urge to have sex. While male therapists might want to satisfy their clients sexually, paid sex is prohibited by law, so they cannot comply. Of course, even without sex, we strive to ensure you have a satisfying sexual experience.

Cancellation Due to Poor Health

Please refrain from using the service if you are hiding an illness. Especially if you have a contagious disease, there is a risk of inconveniencing the therapist and other clients. Notify the service provider of your cancellation as soon as possible. Also, if you unexpectedly get your period, consider your physical condition, and if you still wish to use the service, consult the therapist.

Mental Preparation for Receiving Sexual Massage Services

Relax

Relaxation is key to feeling sexual pleasure. While many women feel somewhat nervous during a session, being overly tense can prevent you from focusing on the sensations and experiencing sexual pleasure. Once in bed, take a few deep breaths to relax and enjoy the experience.

Trust the Male Therapist

If you don’t like the man, you will likely feel uncomfortable no matter what he does. It’s essential to trust your therapist completely. Once in bed, let go of everything and reveal your sensual side, both mentally and physically, to the experienced therapist.

Communicate

Good communication with the therapist is vital for an ideal session. By expressing your desires and concerns without hesitation, you can ensure a better service experience.

Benefits and Drawbacks of Experiencing Sexual Massage Services

Benefits

Achieving Sexual Pleasure and Happiness

Needless to say, regardless of nationality, age, or gender, no one dislikes experiencing sexual pleasure. With the help of an experienced professional, sexual massage can provide such an intensely pleasurable experience that it makes your mind go blank. This can lead to feelings of happiness and also help relieve stress.

Enhancing Your Body and Enjoying Sex More

Many women report that they don’t feel much pleasure during sex or even experience pain, making sex a distressing time for them. However, with time and sessions, even these women can experience a transformation. It’s common for them to start enjoying sex with their partner and even reach orgasm.

Increased Awareness of Beauty

Many women work hard at dieting and muscle training in order to look as beautiful as possible as they undress in front of male therapists. After seeing a therapist several times, some women may look so beautiful that they look different from the first time. The male therapist is very happy if the woman becomes more beautiful because she pays attention to her makeup and fashion and is motivated to meet with him.

Boosting Self-Esteem

Male therapists do their best to make women feel good with their hands and mouths. Usually, they can only do that if they like the woman. Even if women lack confidence due to their body shape or age, many begin to love themselves, thinking, “He’s treating my body with such care.”

Drawbacks

Risk of Contracting Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)

Therapists undergo regular STI screenings. However, there is still a risk of contracting an STI through mucous membrane contact, such as kissing or cunnilingus. Popular therapists serve over 50 clients a month, making it difficult to conduct tests each time they meet a different woman.

Spending Too Much Money Due to Addiction to Pleasure

The fees are not cheap, comparable to those of men’s adult services. Sexual pleasure is like a drug, and once experienced, the brain remembers that sensation. Some women reportedly end up calling a therapist almost every week, spending several hundred thousand yen a month.

Falling for the Therapist

Biologically speaking, women are said to be more likely to fall for men with whom they have physical relationships, unlike men. In such cases, women may struggle with the reality that their connection with the therapist is a paid one.

Flow of the Day of the Session

Final Confirmation on Whether to Meet or Not

On the day of the session, unexpected circumstances such as poor health, the arrival of your period, urgent matters, or other unfortunate events may arise. The therapist will likely contact you for confirmation, but please ensure to communicate whether or not you can meet at least two hours before the scheduled time. Avoid no-shows without any notice.

Meeting Up

Since the therapist doesn’t know what the client looks like, it’s recommended to inform the therapist in advance about your hairstyle and simple clothing. The therapist will approach you once they spot you. The meeting place can be any convenient location you specify, but if called to the client’s hotel, it is often the hotel entrance or lobby.

Counseling

To break the ice and learn about the client’s sexual preferences, a brief conversation will take place. The client will be asked in detail about what they want and don’t want during the session.

Taking a Shower

If the client wishes, they can enter the bathroom together, but usually, they take separate showers. After the shower, when beginning the massage, the client is typically asked to wear a bathrobe over their naked body. Some therapists may provide paper underwear for the client to wear.

Starting the Aroma Massage

It is advisable to use the restroom before getting into bed, as some women may feel the need to go during the session. Once on the bed, whether sitting or lying on your back, take five to ten deep breaths. This alone should help you relax to some extent. Once you’re ready, the aroma massage begins. The aroma massage is intended to relax the body, relieve tension, and prepare it for sexual pleasure before the sexual massage.

Transitioning to Sexual Massage

It’s common to gradually introduce erotic touches during the aroma massage, shifting to sexual massage without a distinct break. Depending on the client’s preferences, both hands and mouth may be used to provide sexual pleasure and lead them to orgasm.

Taking a Shower and Parting Ways

After the session, take a shower to wash off sweat. Although it may feel regretful to part, it’s time to say goodbye.

Professional Tips for a Safe Session

It goes without saying that being alone in a room with a man you’re meeting for the first time and undressing can be nerve-wracking and bring up various concerns. Here’s a bit of advice to help put your mind at ease.

Clearly Communicate What You Don’t Want

Every woman likely has some kind of ideal or imagined scenario for what they want from a session. It’s important to communicate any boundaries or things you don’t want during the counseling or during the session itself. For example, if you don’t want to kiss or prefer not to have your genital area touched, make sure to let the therapist know. Therapists also want to avoid situations where they think they’re doing something to please the client, only to find out it’s something the client didn’t want.

Manage Your Valuables Yourself

When inviting a therapist to your hotel room, there’s usually a lot of personal belongings left out in the room. In case you need to leave the room to take a shower or use the bathroom, make sure to manage your valuables by keeping them in a safe or securing them yourself. While I believe there aren’t any malicious therapists, and you might think Japan is a safe country without such people, it’s better to be cautious. Therapists also prefer to avoid situations where they could be suspected of wrongdoing if a client loses something during their trip.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Is there any chance of being forced into sex during a session?

A: In Japan, paid sex is illegal. If a therapist forces sex against a client’s will, they will be fired from the establishment, and could even face arrest. So, there’s generally no need to worry about that. While I’ve heard that some therapists secretly engage in consensual sex with clients, it is not advisable for clients to initiate such actions. If you are invited, it’s best to decline.

Q: Are there any massage parlors where English is spoken?

A: As of now (July 2024), there are likely very few establishments catering specifically to women who don’t speak Japanese. However, you can find therapists who speak English if you search for them. Even if you don’t speak Japanese, communication is possible with tools like Google Translate, so take the leap and give it a try.

Q: Is sexual massage legal in Japan?

A: Yes, it is legal. As long as it is authorized by the government, all sexual acts except for intercourse are legal in Japan.

Q: Is there anything I should prepare before receiving the service?

A: Other than the service fee and your own drink, there’s nothing in particular you need to bring. The therapist will provide all necessary supplies, including massage oils and bath towels.

Services in Tokyo Where You Can Spend Sweet Time with Handsome Japanese Men

Would you like to be comforted or enjoy a pleasant time with a handsome Japanese man, without involving sexual services? There are still other services where women can experience romantic or intimate situations with men. You could say these are unique, female-oriented entertainment services in Japan.

Host Clubs

This subculture has existed in Japan for over 50 years. Hosts, who are communication professionals, entertain women with enjoyable conversation and attentive service. Imagine drinking with multiple young and handsome men surrounding you. Doesn’t it sound like a fun and out-of-the-ordinary experience? Host clubs are highly valued by women who appreciate someone cheering them up and making them smile when they feel lonely or tired. There are about 1,000 host clubs across Japan.
As for the cost, in Kabukicho, Shinjuku, which is considered the mecca of host clubs, the initial visit costs around 3,000 to 5,000 yen, while subsequent visits can cost over 10,000 yen.
Generally, Japanese men are not fluent in languages other than Japanese, but the number of hosts who can speak English is increasing, so you can enjoy yourself without worry.

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Rental Boyfriends

You can go on a date with your preferred man at your chosen location. There may be beautiful restaurants, amusement parks, or tourist attractions you’d like to visit but have no one to go with. This is especially true if you’re traveling alone or living in a foreign country. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to create better memories with a gentleman who can accompany and guide you? Leave everything to your rental boyfriend and enjoy yourself with peace of mind, even in unfamiliar places.
The cost is around 4,000 yen per hour, plus the therapist’s transportation expenses and any dining or date costs. So, for a three-hour date, you should budget at least around 20,000 yen. Oh, and a word of caution. If a man is too attractive, you may be tempted to fall in love with him. However, sexual acts are not acceptable. It should be limited to holding hands or hugging. It is only a temporary relationship, so please do not get too involved.

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Cuddle Cafes

In Tokyo, Japan, there are even services where you can pay a fee for a man to cuddle with you. Have you ever had nights when you felt lonely, worried about something, or just couldn’t fall asleep? Sometimes, just having someone by your side, without saying a word, can provide comfort and help you fall asleep easily. Since it’s just cuddling, there is physical contact, but it remains a platonic relationship. The partner is a professional, so there’s no need to worry about anything unpleasant happening. You may feel your heart race, but you can relax and sleep soundly while feeling the warmth of a man’s arm pillow. Although there are not many such places, the price at a place I researched was 10,000 yen per hour. Considering that you may need about six hours to sleep, it might feel a bit expensive.

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Conclusion

If you are a mature woman looking for a special experience that is not part of everyday life while in Tokyo, Japan, erotic massage is highly recommended. Sessions can be customized to provide the best service tailored to individual needs and preferences. Furthermore, the professional techniques of the therapists and the high level of safety ensure that even first-time foreign women can feel secure in trying it.

In Japan, services that cater to sexual desires are not just for men. Although you might feel nervous, take a step forward with courage. It will surely lead you to a wonderful world, both physically and mentally. Think of it as a spa experience and enjoy it in a relaxed manner.

I also provide sexual massage services for foreign women in Tokyo, so if you are interested, please check this blog as well.

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